tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26662400.post736736876260402867..comments2023-10-26T08:03:51.274-05:00Comments on This, That, and the Mother Thing: A Step Down the Adoption PathAnitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14024931090380588237noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26662400.post-88404319423516727922007-08-29T10:47:00.000-05:002007-08-29T10:47:00.000-05:00Anita-They actually didn't want to do anything sin...Anita-<BR/><BR/>They actually didn't want to do anything since this was my third pregnancy, my boys were born with no problem at all and this was an "accidental" pregnancy (I was on the Pill!) that it must just be one of those things. But it wasn't one of those things--it was my baby who died...just because s/he was unplanned didn't make him/her unwanted...<BR/><BR/>-EricaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26662400.post-38965618802951296822007-08-29T07:27:00.000-05:002007-08-29T07:27:00.000-05:00Erica--That is truly horrible. As you are going t...Erica--<BR/><BR/>That is truly horrible. As you are going to find out, this m/c is going to be hard to get over, at least is was for me.<BR/><BR/>I would seriously consider getting an RE to check out auto-immune issues.<BR/><BR/>(((hugs)))Anitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14024931090380588237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26662400.post-47969257657372087922007-08-28T16:13:00.000-05:002007-08-28T16:13:00.000-05:00I know someone who adopted a child, filled out the...I know someone who adopted a child, filled out the ppwk to adopt another, got pregnant, got the child through adoption, gave birth and then got pregnant again. You never know! Good luck! <BR/><BR/>I got the result from the anaysis of the fetal tissue from my D&C--normal tissue. Then why a miscarriage at 12 1/2 weeks with a heartbeat the day before????<BR/><BR/>-EricaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26662400.post-61679792826276522052007-08-25T19:17:00.000-05:002007-08-25T19:17:00.000-05:00This is only my second comment in your blog (I com...This is only my second comment in your blog (I commented at a post from a couple of weeks ago, but it was a while after you wrote it). In any case: Hi.<BR/><BR/>We're struggling with all of the same questions you are so I feel your pain. We haven't made the decision to pursue adoption yet, mainly for financial reasons, but I think we'll start soon. It is so much money but the way I look at it is this: If the money ends up not being used for an adoption it's for an insanely good reason.<BR/><BR/>And FWIW, if we adopt an infant I plan to breastfeed.<BR/><BR/>Good luck with ALL your options.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15735737935310717109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26662400.post-20165961030572658302007-08-24T10:29:00.000-05:002007-08-24T10:29:00.000-05:00No reason you can't take multiple paths simultaneo...No reason you can't take multiple paths simultaneously. It sounds like a very wise thing to do. The right one will eventually present itself. Who knows, there may be multiple children in your future from multiple paths.Piratewenchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12650378104485139031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26662400.post-67280798006270213822007-08-23T11:09:00.000-05:002007-08-23T11:09:00.000-05:00I think you are making a good choice. Either way ...I think you are making a good choice. Either way you are going to have a child in the near future and there is still a possibility that you may have more than 1.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09708675281321049193noreply@blogger.com